There comes a time in every relationship where two partners have been dating for a while and both of them want to take it to a more intimate level, which leads to a night of love in the bedroom. Sex is bound to happen to any relationship and the first time is always special because an intimate trust has been built and it opens up the opportunity to spice things up next time, which brings us to the topic of sex toys and their benefits on your sexual experience.
Sex toys have become less and less taboo but many women still feel uncomfortable buying one or even talking about them. However, we should change the mindset that sex toys are embarrassing to buy or talk about because being more open and experimenting with them holds a lot more advantages than you think.
Sex toys bring a lot of benefits for you, your partner, and the experience and there’s absolutely no shame in trying one out for yourself. Let’s say you’ve bought one already and you’re wondering what good can this simple toy bring?
Sex Toys help you to know your body
Well, let’s start off with the fact that sex toys can actually help you to learn more about yourself, your body and sexual needs specifically. Explore and experiment with your body and see what you like and what you don’t like, which in turn, can help you be a little more confident with your partner in bed. Sex toys are also known to improve both stamina and libido to deal with issues of lethargy.
Sex Toys Benefits for your Relationship
It can also improve your relationship! After being with a partner for so long, the magic of sex can fade and it may become a chore. Using sex toys to spice things up and find more ways to enjoy real sex can bring back the spark in the relationship and lead to some more exciting and intimate moments.
It’s not only about your partner; you’ve got to have some self-love too! Did you know that indulging in some self-love from time to time can relieve some stress and make you feel better? Endorphins in the brain are released during orgasms and can help relieve stress and pain, be it emotional or physical. Studies show that women who masturbate have higher self-esteem and better body confidence. Sex toys are not only there to pleasure yourself and relieve stress; they also make you know your body.
Sex Toys Benefits for your health
Sex toys can benefit your health as well. Using vibrators can burn calories and can increase your heart rate. So, using a vibrator has the same benefit of a cardio workout and it sounds a lot more appealing than working out at the gym. They can also rejuvenate your vagina and relieve declining levels of estrogen which lead to vaginal tightness, dryness, and atrophy, leading to painful sex and decreased sex drive. Vibrators improve the tone and elasticity of vaginal walls and improving sexual sensation and also promote vaginal lubrication.
If your partner isn’t in the mood, you can just whip your toy out and you can guarantee yourself a good time and maybe try to figure out which spot makes you orgasm. You don’t need to wait for your partner to help you take care of your needs if you have your own toy.
So basically, a lot of benefits, whether it be for you, your relationship, your health or your sex life, are gained from using these wonderful things we call sex toys and there is absolutely no shame in indulging in such activities.